I cannot count the number of times l have been disappointed in love. Yes that is the story of my life. You end up thinking that all men are bad. Most might be but remember we come with a duty to repopulate the earth and bore our children about the stories of when we were young.
So now to today's discussion how do you give up on giving up. Here is my advice remember you deserve better. Here are my breaking and picking up steps.
How to deal with heart break
1. Cry cry cry. There are no awards for being strong and brave and locking it all in. You will just scar yourself for life. So people please cry buckets and buckets of tears. Think how much fresher your eyes will look it will compensate for the killer headache you will get.
2. Get angry.
For some people it is not easy to get angry at your ex because you feel you deserve what you got. but whether you were on the right or wrong side get angry and justify yourself. Others might say its not healthy but who cares about others right now this is all about you and no one else.
3. Forgive them.
This is the most important step which most people skip. forgiving someone is realising yourself from the prison bitterness had locked you in. Remember forgiveness is all about you. you accept what happened and learn to live with it. if you cannot forgive on your own you might ask for professional help.
4. Surround yourself with loved ones.
Now it is time to remember that you are lovable and adorable and worth it. Yes sometimes after a bad breakup we need people who will remind us why we are lovable. Their unconditional acceptance will sooth the pain away and you might just find yourself loving.
4. Move on.
After completing all the steps you are now ready for the final one moving on. Yes in the beginning it might seem impossible but soon you will realise that the next step is new adventure. Do not spend your life looking at the closed door because you might just miss new doors opening with even better opportunities.
These are the many different languages of saying No so lets use them to say No to giving up. Finally lets break out the wine and get ready to paint the town ready because we are giving up on giving up .. this is your reward for working hard and moving on. Giving yourself the chance for happiness.
Thank you all loved ones who look through my blog and l will love to hear your comments and your strategies on how to deal with heartbreak. If you have any questions at all about romance and dating don't hesitate to ask. My job and beloved duty is to go around offering unsolicited advice to everyone.
If you love my posts or hate them say it so that l know. You realise you have grown up when you know that no matter how much you learn you shall never know everything.
