HOW TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE

Is the friend zone killing you. Are you getting mixed signals and do not know what to do about it. Don't worry as corny as it may sound the love doctor is here and she has come to tell you that the friend zone does not exist. If you don't want to be in friend zone simply get out. Do not give yourself reasons to stay within the friend zone. Love will kill you.

Others may ask how can l get out but everyone knows the answer to that one make a bold move and stick to it. Declare your feelings don't mumble about your feelings because you will get nothing. Cowards always play it safe the brave ones get both the prize and the glory take a risk for once.

Advice: Bite your nails the night before run around and do everything but try and think about what you are going to do.

LOVING AND SOB STORIES.. IS IT WORTH IT.

Recently l was talking to a friend of mine and l told him of my decision to never date anyone who comes with a sob story and he said l was being childish. Others may agree with him and think l am heartless and mean because it is not the fault of the children from the troubled families.

Well its also my life and l know l would not be able to handle their problems so l made the decision not to be involved wth them. So if l am on a date and someone tells me they were abused as children l kindly say goodbye to them and wish them the best in life. As heartless as it may seen with the rise in the crimes of passion l would like to remain safe thank you. 

There is a thin line between love and hate and it is very easy to cross. I know that people from stable families also have their troubles but l still firmly believe those problems are very much more manageable. Sopeople tell me your views am l being unnecessarily harsh on this group of people who were unfortunate enough to face a tough time when growing up.