Recently l was talking to a friend of mine and l told him of my decision to never date anyone who comes with a sob story and he said l was being childish. Others may agree with him and think l am heartless and mean because it is not the fault of the children from the troubled families.
Well its also my life and l know l would not be able to handle their problems so l made the decision not to be involved wth them. So if l am on a date and someone tells me they were abused as children l kindly say goodbye to them and wish them the best in life. As heartless as it may seen with the rise in the crimes of passion l would like to remain safe thank you.
There is a thin line between love and hate and it is very easy to cross. I know that people from stable families also have their troubles but l still firmly believe those problems are very much more manageable. Sopeople tell me your views am l being unnecessarily harsh on this group of people who were unfortunate enough to face a tough time when growing up.