“Dating and Relationships: How do I make a guy feel special?”
Well today l have
a special treat for all my valued followers. Instead of me writing this article
l requested the expertise of a friend who l consider an expert in dating and
relationships. He has never steered me wrong yet and l must say sometimes his
advice makes me reflect on my actions. Getting angry at my boyfriend because he
wanted me to return a necklace l got from a friend who was a guy. I was like
whaaaat are you crazy it will be so embarrassing. But after a chat with my
friend he made me see that it made my boyfriend uncomfortable looking at me
while l was wearing jewellery from another man. His Neanderthal senses kicked
up and said “Woman mine. Must protect and keep. Aaargh Aaarrrgggghhhh.” I think
that it was running in his mind.
To today’s guest who will answer the ultimate question for the love
birds, “How do l make a guy feel special.”
Making a guy feel special is easy. You will hit yourself in the head for
not thinking about it because it is that obvious. Wait for it and please remove
any dangerous weapons near you.
He needs only two things to make him feel special just YOU and YOUR TIME.
Ha! It seems really obvious now combine the two together and you have a
very happy man in your life. However if it was this simple then everyone would
do it. So here are a few ways to light that feeling of warmth in him. WORD OF WARNING BE READY TO BE A SAPPY ROMANTIC.
1.
MAKE HIM A HERO
Yes show him that he is your hero. Once in a while
be the damsel in distress yes we know about equality, we know that what a man
can do a woman can do better but for your relationship sake be the damsel. It
does not have to be something big like saving you from a fire it is simple
changing a light bulb which reminds him that he is your hero. He sees a soft
side which no one else sees and that makes him feel special.
2.
TOUCH HIS HAIR
It might seem like something small but touching his
hair and rubbing the scalp is a big deal. It relieves the tensions of the day
and makes him feel loved. Once in a while men want to forget to be the Iron Men
of the world and just relax for a small cuddle. For added benefit put his head
on your lap it makes it more intimate and loving and differentiates it from the
nurse checking his head for lice.
3.
REMIND HIM THAT YOU LOVE HIM
I say it every morning before he goes to work you
might argue. Well continue with that but remember to say it when he is stressed
and you are really angry him. Say it when he is making a tough decision that
you will love him no matter what. Believe me it works wonders. Just a quick
message as he is going about his day to remind him of your love.
4.
LEARN ABOUT SOMETHING HE IS INTERESTED
IN.
It is not always sports people. You know him so
really what does he care about that you don’t. Think of Penny in The big bang
theory when he crammed a commentary about what Leonard’s geeky interest in star
wars. It earned the title of the Best girlfriend on earth. Shock him one day
with an accurate statement about an interest of his. It can be about rugby or
something as unusual as hunting butterflies.
Try these tips they work. You will have a happy man
and something special to look forward to on your birthday and anniversary.
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