“IN A RELATIONSHIP WHO SHOULD BE MORE ATTRACTIVE
THE MALE OR THE FEMALE”
Wow the
questions people ask are sometimes really shocking. Yet this is a legitimate
question, who should be more attractive? Recently I read an article " beauty isnt about having a pretty face." beauty is
in the eyes of the beholder and l agree. Before l go any further would you date
an ugly person? Do not lie to and say if she has a good personality even though
she has the face like the back of a horse. Remember you are not a martyr and no
one is forcing you to be one. If the person is not attractive to you leave them
be you are not the last person on earth someone will see their beauty and love
them for it.
Now moving
on to today’s topic who should be more attractive in a relationship the male or
the female. Generally people tend to argue that it is the female. As women we take
a lot of pride in our looks and men really love to admire. So this is a win-win
situation for everyone involved. As the woman your ego gets a boost every time
you receive nice comments and the male gets a boost every time his friends call
him a lucky dog. True story in China a man divorced and sued his wife for
giving birth to an ugly baby. It turns out the woman had some plastic surgery
done which made her easy on the eyes and tricked this guy in to marriage.
Sensitive guy ha? Who calls their own kid ugly?
Now that we
all agree the female should be more attractive we can leave right, wrong. As l said
before looks matter and to be honest no matter how much we evolve there always
will. It is not only the woman who is judged on looks men are too. If your girlfriend
thinks you are ugly well sorry buddy but l think your days in that relationship
are numbered. No one should ever settle for less than they deserve. For a relationship to last you must both think you are equally attractive. You must assume that people are dying for a chance to get your partner. It is healthy competition and possessiveness.
To conclude
in a relationship you should both view each other as attractive. Forget society’s
criteria on what constitutes an attractive person and instead really look at
your partner. Does he/she have most of those qualities you think are attractive?
I was going to say all the qualities but who needs perfection in the end
perfection becomes boring and stifling. You know you are in love if you can
even tolerate the annoying little qualities. Until then here is another cat to cuddle with.
All the pictures used in this article do not belong to me, unless stated otherwise.
