Hello people it has really been too
long. I apologise l have really been caught up at work. So browsing through
Quora l came across this interesting topic which made me stop and read through
it again.
So first looking at this question I
was like what the hell it is definitely wrong and nothing good ever comes out
of that relationship.
Don’t forget the good old saying that
if he is able to cheat on someone with you then he will cheat on you with
someone else. If that doesn’t scare don’t forget karma which says whatever you
do to others shall be done to you. Now are you really scared.
After researching through this topic
l am inclined to disagree with all those who say that is wrong. Situations and
circumstances tend to differ and so in those cases different reactions will
occur.
Situation 1: He is married.
Well in that situation there are no
ifs and buts just stay away. Giving him a chance to explain is like reading a
sign which says road closed and you continue driving ahead. Married people in
98% of the cases always work thing out and you are left nursing some terrible
heartbreak so run away while you still can. What are the chances that you are
part of the 2%.
Situation 2: He is engaged.
There is still a small window which
gives you a chance. Before you do anything ask yourself why you fancy him. Is
it because of shallow reasons like he is handsome and rich or is it because you
really hate the fiancée and want to teach her a lesson? If those are your
reason move away he is taken it will never work. Go out there and find your own
single man.
Situation 3: He is dating.
Though the situation is not ideal
there its not wrong to fancy him. You have the chance to go and lay out your
feelings and see if he is interested. In this situation you can fight and get
win the love of your life even if he was taken before. He is still fair game.
What do you think is it ok to fancy
someone who is taken and act on it. I look forward to reading your thoughts and
ideas about the topic.
